It was always Gitte who delivered the speeches, while I sat at the table and admired her ability to find the right words on any occasion. But I won’t get away with that today.
I feel that I am one of the world’s luckiest people, because I was allowed 42 years in Gitte’s company.
Gitte created environments at home and at work which helped people find the best in themselves. She constantly encouraged us to become better. She demanded it – but was fair and constructive, and with the occasional mischievous grin.
She was ready to help when needed, whether you had a Master or PhD thesis that needed review, a pork belly in the oven that needed the final touch, or you wanted to start and run a business in Russia, Serbia, or the USA.
Her work delivered:
Many of these relationships were cemented by one of Gitte’s legendary gourmet dinners.
Gitte managed to stay in control, with constructive positive attitude – and a spark in her eye – to the very end. During her last week:
Gitte has helped many, many people. I was lucky to have her help for 42 years.
Thank You, Gitte.
Det var altid Gitte som holdt talerne, mens jeg sad ved bordet og beundrede hendes evner til at finde en passende bemærkning ved enhver anledning. Men så nemt slipper jeg ikke idag.
Jeg føler mig som et af verdens heldigste mennesker, fordi jeg fik 42 år sammen med Gitte.
Gitte skabte miljøer, både hjemme og på arbejde, hvor folk kunne få det bedste ud af sig selv. Hun stillede også krav til at vi gjorde det – hun var ikke altid sød – men fair og konstruktiv, og med et glimt i øjet.
Hun var parat til at hjælpe når der var brug for det, om du så havde en Master-afhandling eller PhD der skulle gennemlæses, en flæskesteg i ovnen der manglede det sidste, eller du skulle etablere og drive en virksomhed i Rusland, Serbien eller USA.
Det gav os:
Mange af disse forhold blev cementeret af Gittes legendariske måltider.
Gitte bevarede den konstruktive holdning, med et glimt i øjet, til det aller sidste. Det gjorde det meget nemmere for os igennem hele sygdomsforløbet. I hendes sidste uge oplevede vi:
Gittes har skubbet mange, mange mennesker i en god retning. Og jeg er een af dem, der har fået mest hjælp til at blive den bedste mulige udgave af mig selv – i 42 år.
Tak, Gitte.
I’m looking for a hard headed woman
One who’ll take me for myself
And if I find my hard headed woman
I won’t need nobody else, no, no, no
I’m looking for a hard headed woman
One who’ll make me do my best
And if I find my hard headed woman
I know the rest of my life will be blessed, yes, yes, yes